◇ Depends on the scene Lucky or not depending on the scene — see "In this scene" below
Guidance and returning to your roots. Praise from a mentor means effort will pay off; a scolding warns you are forgetting your original aims.
Category: People & love (how to read this category)
Psychology
A mentor may appear at a crossroads, when an inner standard asks what that person would say. Close to Jung's wise elder archetype, it may be your own judgment borrowing the face of someone you trust.
Folklore and history
Japan has a deep culture of honoring one's teacher, and even traditional graduation songs express gratitude to teachers. Dream lore reads a mentor as a sign of help or good advice from a senior, and a nudge to recall your beginnings.
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This site's view
In this site's view, this dream recalls what you believed back then. If your mentor looked unchanged, your core is still steady. If they appeared aged, you may be moving from receiving teaching to passing it on. If they simply sat beside you, you already know the answer.
Going deeper: our reading
As the old graduation song honouring teachers shows, Japan has long valued gratitude towards one's teachers. Yet many people only notice their teacher's struggles and doubts when they reach that same age themselves, realising the person who guided them stood at the front of the class while worrying, just as they do now. In this site's reading, a mentor dream reflects your role shifting from the one being taught to the one who teaches or watches over others. Facing your mentor in the old classroom suggests a wish to return to your starting point and check your path. Talking as equals with your aged mentor shows a sense of having digested what you learned and found your own feet. This is our speculation, but your mentor asking you for advice points to an awareness that you now have enough experience to guide someone.
What to do on waking
Write down one thing your mentor taught you. If you can, send them a note to let them know how you are.
In this scene
- ◎Good Getting along: stability, or a wish for it (good)
- A fight or parting: often read as a reverse dream — the bond deepens
- ▲Warn They ignore you: distance, or your own lack of confidence (warning)
- It felt good: the lucky reading gets stronger
- ▲Warn It felt frightening or painful: the warning reading gets stronger — rest first
- The same dream again and again: something your mind has not settled yet
Turning a bad dream
In Japan, people once tried to turn a worrying dream for the better: a baku charm under the pillow, telling the dream to a nandina bush, or reciting an old dream-turning poem. Read the column on dream trading and dream-turning
A study of the Shinano miko who channeled the words of the dead and the gods through kuchiyose (spirit-calling) — a reference for our mediumship articles.
The Shinano Miko: Traveling Spirit-Channeling Shamanesses (Yohei Nakano / Showado)
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FAQ
Q. Is dreaming of a Mentor a good or bad sign?
A. Lucky or not depending on the scene — see "In this scene" below. Guidance and returning to your roots. Praise from a mentor means effort will pay off; a scolding warns you are forgetting your original aims.
Q. Why do I keep dreaming of a Mentor?
A. A recurring dream usually points to something your mind has not settled yet. Research suggests such dreams tend to stop once the underlying worry is resolved. Keeping a dream diary helps you notice what triggers it.
Q. What should I do after dreaming of a Mentor?
A. Write down one thing your mentor taught you. If you can, send them a note to let them know how you are.
Related dream essays
- True Dreams and Reverse Dreams: Why We Read Dreams Backwards
- Buying Dreams, Turning Dreams: A Japanese History of Dream Trading and Dream Charms
Read this dream with your own scene in the Dream Dictionary →
More dreams in "People & love"
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- A Cousin
- A Nephew
- A Niece
- An Ex-Husband
- An Ex-Wife
- A Subordinate
- A Client
- A Neighbor
- A Landlord
- A Crowd
- A Traveler
※ Dream interpretation here is entertainment drawing on psychology and folklore — it is not scientifically proven. "This site's view" is our own interpretation.