◇ Depends on the scene Lucky or not depending on the scene — see "In this scene" below
Harmony and turning luck. Failing to say it warns of feelings left unspoken.
Category: Actions & events (how to read this category)
Psychology
Thanking someone shows your mind is aware of help received. Saying it freely means gratitude is flowing; being unable to speak reflects thanks you never delivered.
Folklore and history
Arigatou comes from arigatashi, meaning rare or hard to have, and Buddhism used it to speak of how precious a human life is. Together with the belief in word-power, words of thanks were seen as calling in good fortune.
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This site's view
In this site's view, note whether they are still near you. Thanking someone far away or gone is your heart delivering what went unsaid. If they did not answer, the point may be accepting that you said it, not whether it arrived.
Going deeper: our reading
Thanks come in many forms: a casual "thank you," a formal "I'm grateful for all you've done," a written expression of gratitude. Choosing among them, we unconsciously measure our distance from the other person. In this site's reading, the phrasing you chose in the dream reflects your current closeness. Oddly formal thanks to someone close suggest you sense a gap opening. Casual thanks to a senior figure show a relationship that has comfortably drawn nearer. Bowing again and again without feeling lighter may mean guilt or reserve now outweighs gratitude. This is our speculation, but being thanked by someone and feeling flustered may show you haven't yet acknowledged your own efforts. Receiving thanks is as much a practice as giving it.
What to do on waking
If you owe someone thanks, send a short word today. If you cannot reach them, say it silently with their name.
In this scene
- ◎Good It works out, you escape: you can overcome a real challenge (good)
- ▲Warn It fails, you are caught: feeling cornered — rest or ask for help (warning)
- Doing it again and again: an unsolved problem is still on your mind
- It felt good: the lucky reading gets stronger
- ▲Warn It felt frightening or painful: the warning reading gets stronger — rest first
- The same dream again and again: something your mind has not settled yet
Turning a bad dream
In Japan, people once tried to turn a worrying dream for the better: a baku charm under the pillow, telling the dream to a nandina bush, or reciting an old dream-turning poem. Read the column on dream trading and dream-turning
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FAQ
Q. Is dreaming of saying Thank You a good or bad sign?
A. Lucky or not depending on the scene — see "In this scene" below. Harmony and turning luck. Failing to say it warns of feelings left unspoken.
Q. Why do I keep dreaming of saying Thank You?
A. A recurring dream usually points to something your mind has not settled yet. Research suggests such dreams tend to stop once the underlying worry is resolved. Keeping a dream diary helps you notice what triggers it.
Q. What should I do after dreaming of saying Thank You?
A. If you owe someone thanks, send a short word today. If you cannot reach them, say it silently with their name.
Related dream essays
- True Dreams and Reverse Dreams: Why We Read Dreams Backwards
- Buying Dreams, Turning Dreams: A Japanese History of Dream Trading and Dream Charms
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More dreams in "Actions & events"
- Waving
- Shaking Hands
- A Shoulder Ride
- A Piggyback
- Being Whispered To
- Being Thanked
- Wrapping Something
- Opening Something
- Peeking
- Hiding Something
- Burying Something
- Digging
※ Dream interpretation here is entertainment drawing on psychology and folklore — it is not scientifically proven. "This site's view" is our own interpretation.
